||1) Write a whinging pity-fest for leftist-chimps.org". There seem to be a few sorts there who are upset that the women they know show little desire for a meek, bland man who won't raise a finger to fight for them.
2) Write a controversial column for here, advocating genetic engineering to raise women who prefer meek, bland, inoffensive men.
3) Toughen up, value your self. On some level, women will test prospective mates, knowing intuitively that a partnered life is hard and strenous, and not wanting to waste their time and body on someone who can't handle the long haul. Being married and raising two children is the hardest things I've done, it pales in comparison to getting a BS in Engineering, or writing a book in your free time.
There's a word for children who's parents were too nice to them, brats. A good parent is tough but loving, and not adverse to a little physical discipline at times. Keep in mind the enormous sacrifices a woman must make to carry and raise a child, and you will understand why they want a good but tough man to be there with them.